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I’ll never get tired of saying it: in a world that’s increasingly fast-paced, busy, and, if I may say, often superficial, creating spaces of well-being at home is absolutely essential!

Shapes, colors, materials, lighting, furniture placement, and a connection to nature are the key elements for spaces that promote relaxation and well-being!

To achieve this, you must start with mindful design that truly considers who we are and what we want to experience at home.

– SHAPES

Furniture and decor with organic, soft shapes—what we might even call “curvy”—make spaces feel less formal and especially less rigid!

That somehow helps promote relaxation.

Of course, not everything needs to be curved, but it’s a good idea to “soften” the space with such elements.

From a feng shui perspective, it’s also important to limit, if not eliminate, sharp corners.

As mentioned before, not everything has to be curvy, especially if it’s not to your taste, but even furniture with rounded edges will make a big difference!

(credits: westwing.com; @vymir_design)

– COLORS

Neutral, natural colors like beige, blues, greens, and earthy tones are calming and relaxing. Using this type of palette at home helps promote well-being.

That doesn’t mean giving up on more vibrant or bold colors, but perhaps using them in smaller doses—think of the “60-30-10” rule, where they can be the famous 10%.

That will still help bring a bit of rhythm and energy to the space!

Alternatively, if you want to use them in larger doses, you could do so in more dynamic and active spaces, like the living room or the office.

That approach works well from a feng shui perspective because it helps balance Yin (passive, feminine, and calm) and Yang (active, masculine, and dynamic) energies, a fundamental principle in this discipline!

I suggest using the same colors throughout the house, obviously changing their saturation, to maintain a common thread between the rooms.

(credits: cocolapinedesign.com; Iba design Associates)

– MATERIALS

Using natural materials as much as possible is vital to creating spaces of well-being and health at home.

Wood and wicker, wool, velvet, cotton, and linen, not to mention stone, terracotta, and marble, are all natural and, therefore, healthy elements that promote well-being!

However, it’s also important to be mindful, whenever possible, of their sourcing and production processes.

That is something we often overlook and also applies to the paints we use on our walls: some may contain harmful substances!

We discussed this with Carla Spessato, a green lifestyle mentor, here!

The right choice of materials will create healthy spaces that contribute to our overall well-being while also helping to protect the environment.

(credits: Sebastian Erras; artdecorationcrafting.gr)

– LIGHT/ILLUMINATION

It is scientifically proven that light plays a fundamental role in our well-being.

Studies show that the incidence of depression is significantly higher in Nordic countries compared to other places.

Therefore, maximizing natural light by keeping windows clean and using sheer curtains is paramount.

When the spaces are less bright, it becomes essential to use strategies like reflective colors, mirrors, and metals to expand light and increase brightness for less illuminated spaces.

Besides, it is also crucial to properly design artificial lighting using multiple light sources for visual comfort that promotes well-being!

Where possible, using dimmable lights would be ideal to adjust the atmosphere according to the moment’s needs.

(credits: Katke Zavese; Studio design HDm2)

– NATURE

Feeling close to nature is another fundamental element in creating well-being spaces at home.

Having plants in various rooms is therefore essential!

Honestly, there’s no room – except perhaps for the storage room – that cannot have a plant, not even the bedroom!

Plants also have purifying qualities, which are very useful in our homes given, unfortunately, the pollution in our cities.

From a psychological perspective, caring for plants is also essential for relaxation (We discuss this in our guidebook with Dr. Francesca Basile and myself).

If you find it difficult, you can always use some succulents or place branches or leaves in vases, for instance, the Monstera leaf, which lasts a long time.

Finally, even if they lack purifying properties, you can also use artificial plants, as long as they are high quality and look realistic.

The mind won’t see the difference, so you’ll still benefit from the calming and relaxing properties!

(credits: Brianne Penney; westwing.it)

– FURNITURE PLACEMENT

For well-being spaces, the various rooms mustn’t be too cluttered with furniture and objects, as this can create an unconscious feeling of suffocation.

That doesn’t mean minimalism at all costs, especially if that’s not your style, but as much as choosing things that are functional and meaningful to you!

Additionally, everything must be positioned so that it’s accessible.

Passages and pathways should be free from obstructions and “fluid.”

That is fundamental also in feng shui because it allows fair energy to flow freely.

(credits: pure salt interiors; @reserve_home)

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If you feel that your home, or any part of it, doesn’t reflect you enough, don’t wait any longer: fall in love with your place again and book your consultancy!

Creating a home you love and making you feel good in an increasingly hectic and fast-paced world is essential.

It would be miserable and exhausting, in fact, to come home after a long day and not feel happy in your own space.

I often say that to recharge yourself fully, you should feel comfortable and safe at home.

Today, I want to share some tips that will help you create a home you love and that make you feel good!

– PLAN

The first thing to do is to plan your home carefully: understand how you want to use and live in each room so that you can buy furniture and accessories that are functional for that specific space.

It is paramount to have precise measurements to ensure furniture is proportionate so the room won’t look too crowded or empty.

At that point, deciding what kind of atmosphere you want to create in the home is essential so you can choose the appropriate styles and colors.

Then, creating a mood board, first a general one and then one for each room, is necessary so you can see that everything works together harmoniously and that there is a cohesive theme throughout the home!

Plan even if you already have a home but are not completely satisfied with it: you’ll know what you want to fix or change, and this will bring you enthusiasm, even if you could or would not do everything all at once!

(credits: canva)

– DECLUTTERING AND SIMPLICITY

We live in an age of rampant consumerism, and in our homes, we often accumulate everything and anything (though, fortunately, this isn’t the case for everyone).

One of the biggest challenges is often letting go!

However, having too many things in your home leads to two main problems:

– It makes it harder to keep things organized, and cleaning the house becomes longer and burdensome.

– With so many, too many, things around, our minds also feel “full,” overcrowded!

That creates a more or less unconscious sense of unease.

So it’s vital to simplify, only keeping what is truly necessary or holds particular meaning/value (and not just in economic terms).

Periodically, you should take a look at your surroundings and see if there are things you no longer use, no longer like: in short, things that no longer serve a purpose, and “get rid of them” (whether by selling, donating, or throwing them away!).

Doing this will create a physical space in your home and a mental one as well, making life feel lighter!

(Psychologist Dr. Basile and I have dedicated an entire chapter of our guidebook to decluttering you can find it on Amazon.)

(credits: canva)

– ORGANIZE

It’s not enough to have only the essentials to keep your home in order; everything needs to have its own place and be easily accessible.

Otherwise, things are likely to be left lying around.

Arrange things in a way that works for you so you’ll always know where to find them.

Try to organize closets, drawers, and pantries as well—you’ll find plenty of ideas on how to do this.

There are also many storage solutions and gadgets available that can help.

Just be sure to choose ones that are functional for your lifestyle and how you use your home; otherwise, you might get tired of them quickly and revert to old habits.

An example I often give is that there is no need to have a jar for every type of food in the pantry if you don’t have the time or patience to transfer everything each time.

It’s enough to have containers, perhaps baskets, where to store bags by category.

Organizing shouldn’t complicate your life – quite the opposite!

To have everything neatly arranged, orderly, and accessible calms the mind and brings a sense of peace, even if you’re not always aware of it!

(credits: ikea; Hgtv)

– SHOWCASE WHAT YOU LOVE AND MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD

It’s vital to display the things you love, as these items make you feel good and give you that sense of home!

If you’re a book lover, don’t just fill your bookshelf—create compositions with your favorite books.

For instance, you can place two or three on the coffee table, maybe along with a candle and another object (remembering to mix different shapes, materials, and sizes to create movement and rhythm!).

If you love to travel, you can create a space with the places you’ve visited mementos.

Or, you might want to create a beautiful photo gallery.

Feel free, if you have children, to put some of their drawings on the fridge. While it might not look like a “magazine home,” it brings joy, and that’s the only thing that matters most.

If you’re particular about keeping things tidy, you can always create an album with all their artwork and keep it proudly on display!

By showcasing what you love, everywhere you look in your home, you’ll find something that brings you joy!

(credits: canva)

– BRING NATURE INTO YOUR HOME

I know, I always say this, but it’s because it’s a significant point: nature relaxes us!

Try to incorporate natural elements into your furniture, textiles, and accessories.

Wooden furniture, natural fabrics, terracotta vases, and wicker baskets all help create a calming atmosphere.

And of course, don’t forget the plants!

Authentic plants are incredibly beneficial, as they purify the air, among other things.

But it’s also taking care of them—watering, repotting when necessary, and removing any dry leaves or flowers—that helps our minds relax.

While authentic plants are best, we’ve learned that if you don’t have a green thumb, it’s better to have a well-made artificial plant than a sickly real one!

Sick or dying plants, as you can imagine, can be depressing, so again, it’s better to have a quality fake plant than to be throwing out constantly real ones!

(credits: canva)

– BE GRATEFUL

This point might sound strange, but we are bombarded with images every day, and trends change incredibly fast.

It’s so easy to be attracted to these images and trends, and comparing our homes to them is a snap!

At that point, the desire to change everything can kick in, and dissatisfaction can take hold!

That’s why it’s paramount to look around you and be grateful for your home, what you have inside it, and what might have cost sacrifice to obtain—this will quickly restore balance.

It’s also good to remember that trends come and go, and the images we see are often carefully staged sets created just for the photoshoot.

This point inevitably ties back to the first one: if you’ve planned your home well, taking the time to understand your real needs and focusing on what makes you feel good, gratitude will come naturally!

(credits: canva)

I hope this article about creating a home you love and making you feel good has been helpful and enjoyable for you. If so, let me know in the comments!

Feel free to share it with anyone you think might be interested, I would be honored, and it will help me gain more exposure.

If you feel that your home, or any specific area of it, doesn’t reflect your personality enough, don’t wait any longer and book your consultancy!

The home is not just a roof under which to eat and sleep but a LIVE place that supports us in every aspect, especially our psychophysical well-being.

The home should be that place where we feel good, where we let down our defenses, and where we rediscover and are ourselves!

To truly make it so, it’s paramount to pay attention to some details.

Let’s see them together.

– YOUR HOME SHOULD REFLECT YOU

An essential aspect of having a home that supports well-being is that it’s designed to represent you 100%.

Sometimes there’s a tendency to follow fashion trends, partly because they please the eye, partly to impress others, but this is a mistake!

Your home should exude your personality in every detail and be furnished with intention!

Each space should be designed to honestly support your lifestyle and personal way of being and living in the home.

Therefore, the choice of furniture, materials, and colors should be made based on your personality, as mentioned a moment ago.

They should please your eyes, of course, but also your body and soul, and they should speak of you!

Always start with a list of things that are important to you to create environments that are comfortable and harmonious for you.

(credits: luxesource.com; breyi.com)

– FUNCTIONALITY AND USABILITY

The same house and room can be furnished in many different ways, not only in style and colors but also in layouts!

It’s essential, first and foremost, that everything is arranged functionally for your way of living in the space.

As mentioned other times, consider the primary function for each room and then plan everything else around it.

An example I always give is the living room: is the primary function to entertain guests or watch TV?

You can see how the arrangements would differ!

Everything should be arranged functionally for you (you’re always at the center of everything!)

When functionally positioning things, it’s also vital to ensure that everything is easily accessible.

You should be able to move around the rooms and access everything without “jumping over obstacles” or moving things around.

This ease of access will make everything flow more smoothly, and you’ll enjoy every space totally.

Moreover, this fluidity will also make cleaning easier, making it, I won’t say enjoyable, but at least not stressful!

funzionalità e fruibilità casa che supporta benessere

(credits: Isabelle Dimang; optimaproperties.com)

– LIGHTING

Light is essential for psychophysical well-being.

It has been shown that in Nordic countries where the population experiences very few hours of daylight for many months of the year, the incidence of depression is higher.

Therefore, it’s paramount to have a bright home and to make the most of natural light first and foremost!

Sometimes, rooms tend to be dark, and in these cases, it’s vital to implement some strategies, such as using glossy materials (without overdoing them because they can make the environment feel cold) and, above all, mirrors.

Mirrors strategically placed, more or less in front of the window, can double the light in the room!

Another helpful trick is to use shiny metals in the lamp stems, chair and table legs, handles, and frames, for example!

Metals will also help reflect light.

It goes without saying that artificial light is essential as well.

Every room should have proper general lighting to see everything well.

However, as you know by now, this isn’t enough; it should be supplemented by other sources of light that can create atmosphere and be useful for activities (for example, a lamp near the couch, especially if you enjoy reading!).

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(credits: studio mcgee; Studio-design-HDm2)

– MATERIALS

We’ve mentioned this other times: buying furniture and accessories made from natural materials is essential.

That is good for the environment, we know that, but it’s also good for us.

Warm materials like wood provide a pleasant sensation, even if unconscious because they connect us to nature.

The same goes for fabrics, such as cotton, linen, wool, or velvet, because they are free from synthetic substances and are much more pleasant to the touch (often also to the eye).

Natural materials are free from chemicals that are often harmful, so using them for furniture coverings, accessories, and fabrics means creating healthy environments.

materiali-naturali-casa-che-suporta-benessere

(credits: hoskelsa; @oh.eight.oh.nine)

– COLORS

Colors have an incredible psychological impact on us (I discuss it here), so they should be chosen carefully.

The calming colors of nature, such as sand, greens, and blues, are always an excellent choice for relaxing environments that connect us to nature.

It’s also a good idea to prefer warm tones or at least warm up cooler tones with the proper materials.

Neutral colors are very suitable for cozy and relaxing settings.

By neutral colors, I mean any color desaturated with white for a lighter tint or black for a darker color!

To have vibrant spaces, play with the tones and shades of colors from the palette, and dare with walls of intense colors.

If you love bright colors, use them to add character, maybe not in large quantities, but in accessories and decorations (the famous 10% of the 60-30-10 rule: I discuss it here).

(credits: habitatbyresene.co.nz; @rcpa)

– PLANTS

Undoubtedly, this point won’t surprise you; we’ve mentioned it many times!

Plants have a calming power because they mentally connect us to nature, which relaxes us.

This power is visual, so even though it’s better with authentic plants, it still applies to artificial ones.

Authentic plants have an added bonus, which is their ability to purify the air, and, of course, this is a great thing!

There isn’t a room in the house that can’t have plants, except maybe for a windowless bathroom or a storage room.

You can even put them in the bedroom!

Decorate with plants: get some tall ones that reach the ceiling, and get some small ones to put in your compositions on consoles, bookshelves, and tables.

You can even use just branches or decorative leaves; they have an elegant, minimal effect!

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(credits: harlowejames.com; Scout & Nimble)

– GET RID OF THE EXCESS

For those who aren’t minimalist at heart (like myself, I admit, I’m not), it’s easy to “accumulate” many things.

That impacts our homes and, therefore, us!

When you have a lot, it’s much harder to clean and keep everything well-organized, and things end up occupying important spaces (both in sight and drawers and closets).

It’s vital to get rid of what no longer serves a purpose, what no longer represents us, what no longer has meaning.

I know it’s not easy, but there’s a trick here too!

First of all, DON’T do everything at once; after a while, you might get tired and give up, rearranging everything as before.

Dedicate an hour a week, 10/15 minutes a day, whatever suits you best, and start with one room and one closet and then continue.

You don’t need to get rid of everything RIGHT AWAY; for the things you’re unsure about, only start by setting them aside!

HERE A TRICK!

Find a corner where you can keep a bit of temporary clutter and put everything there that you might not use anymore or doesn’t fit but, for various reasons, you find it hard to let go of.

Once you’ve tidied up the whole room, look at the result and savor how it makes you feel.

At that point, you can look at everything you’ve accumulated with different eyes and decide, with greater awareness, what to do with it.

Some things might find their way back to their place, which is fine, but it won’t be the same as before because you’ve made space!

Most of the things, however, will leave your home, I’m sure of it.

Of course, you don’t have to throw everything away; what’s in good condition can be given away or sold.

Believe me: this work will create space in your home, sure, but also in your mind!

(credits: Pins studio; lillytaylorinteriors)

I hope this article has been helpful and enjoyable for you. If so, let me know in the comments!

Feel free to share it with anyone you think might be interested, I would be honored, and it will help me gain more exposure.

If you feel that your home, or any specific area of it, doesn’t reflect your personality enough, don’t wait any longer and book your consultancy!